This is something i’ve been wanting to bring up for a while. My weight fluctuates a lot because of my medication and so i’m used to being both skinny and a bit chubby. It doesn’t usually bother me, because i’m generally a pretty confident person. I’ve recently gained some weight and i was at my friend Laurens house and her friend was over who i didn’t really know and she said to me “It’s great that you’re not afraid to wear tank tops and show off your arms even though you’re heavier.” and it really just pissed me off because for one who cares if i’m a bit chubby? And for two, what does that have to do with confidence? I understand some people being insecure about their weight, but to assume everyone who’s not “skinny” really offends me. I have a fuck load of other qualities that i’m really proud of, I graduated high school at 15, i’m starting my own clothing company at 17, and i have a lot of great people who want to be my friend so obviously i’m doing something right. Like it’s just really aggravating to know that someone looks at a thicker girl or boy and just assume that they have low self esteem. Cause that’s really not always the case. I happen to like myself so for you to assume i don’t is really offensive.